i am glad i dont have women in my life

8 Mar

london 10.31am 7.7C cloudy thursday 2018


i slept really early last night at about 8.30pm. i find i do that after my circuit training… it is lovely to be able to fall asleep whenever i like. by sleeping so early it means i wake up at about 1am… that is no big deal for me but i guess if u are working the next day you wont like it. i just went online till about 6am, then went back to sleep and woke about 9.30am.

my friend from florida, usa has come to visit me for a month or so. he came yesterday at about 11am . and slept right through the day and night. jet lag i think.

he was here about the same time last year, and it reminded me that it was the time i fractured my foot too. so a year have gone by. we are all gay so have lovely pleasant lives… haha.

i figured it is because we dont have women in our lives. life is very simple when u dont have them in your life. i think. in the film my fair lady, the professor higgins  character sang of it, giving all the reasons why… i agree with him. haha. being gay makes it easy to do without women in my life. so i am glad to be gay.

i can imagine it must be difficult to avoid women if you are straight.that is  if u really want to avoid them. like they said, cant do without them, cant do with them. haha.

i see it in videos of other men having problems with the women in their lives, usually falsely accused of rape. but in my own experience i can see my own brothers having problems with their wives, usually nagging , making them do things just so they dont lose face, that kind of thing.

i saw a video this morning about israeli men having huge problems being falsely accused of rape by israeli women, because there the law specifically states they wont prosecute women who falsify evidence in rape accusations. its got so bad, that many men marry foreigners rather than israeli women. i could not help thinking when i was seeing that video that israel would be lovely for lesbians, all those beautiful women around, and so independant and the law and society positively discriminating for them. if i were a lesbian it would be paradise surely. i am sure there must be a large proportion of lesbians in israel. 

though it might be difficult to find work, because the men as so scared now they try not to hire women it seems. the video mentioned offices where they are all men. how do they get away with that, i wonder, because they must have laws that make sure the business has a quota for women surely… or is there a way to work round that. when the video ended, there were more videos thrown up by utube, and i saw one saying dr seuss books are racist…. hmm, what is going on really. people are reinterpreting everything…

added. 12.33pm 8C i am so surprised to read this article about snow and what not up north. like a different world. at first i thought it might have been a old article,but it was published this morning today. 

here in london it is very mild. the lowest was 6C yet in that article i see they were saying it is 1C in the south. someone is lying. and i know it is not me. haha. ah well, serves them right for living up north.

9 Responses to “i am glad i dont have women in my life”

  1. juliehcares Thursday March 8, 2018 at 12:06 pm #

    I think you have enough women on here to qualify. 😉

    • alifesgayventure Thursday March 8, 2018 at 12:27 pm #

      that is a good point. there are quite a lot of women i interact with here in the wordpress … but i think because women form the majority of bloggers… am i right or is it a wrong impression.

      • juliehcares Thursday March 8, 2018 at 12:30 pm #

        I think it’s really half and half. I follow a ton of men writers on here. 😀

      • alifesgayventure Thursday March 8, 2018 at 1:36 pm #

        maybe u can put down a list of them. i would like to follow more men blogs, but there are very few personal blogs by men, usually they all have a purpose, which is another thing i notice about men blogs.

      • juliehcares Thursday March 8, 2018 at 1:37 pm #

        Opinionated man is the first one I thought of. Life with JC is another one. I will read and let you know more

  2. MELewis Thursday March 8, 2018 at 5:53 pm #

    Although I am a woman, a wife and an (occasional) nag, I don’t really see the world in terms of gender or orientation. People are people, and I can either relate to them or not. Gay or straight or somewhere in between, surely all couples nag each other at times? 😉

    • alifesgayventure Thursday March 8, 2018 at 6:03 pm #

      is it true that all couples nag each other ? in my experience, gay couples dont do it. at least gay male couples. maybe lesbian couples nag each other a lot. haha. but i wont know about that as i dont have any lesbians couple friends. but in all the husband and wife couples,i know, i see it is the wife that does the nagging. the husband just keep quiet. have you ever seen a husband nag the wife at all???

      • MELewis Thursday March 8, 2018 at 8:12 pm #

        Perhaps it depends on how you define ‘nag’. Maybe it’s not quite the same in gay or lesbian couples, but I think couples of all persuasions have their little ‘things’ where each shows the other signs of dissatisfaction, hints, suggested behaviours or whatever. Perhaps it is culturally dictated that women should be ‘demanding’ and men resist. 🙂

      • alifesgayventure Thursday March 8, 2018 at 8:39 pm #

        i think u have hit on the big difference between men and women… it explains a lot the way the sexes interact…

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